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Issue #040: Don’t listen to your parents when it comes to money
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37 years old and earning £52,000
You guys really enjoyed it when I shared one of your money stories a couple of weeks ago.
In fact, I’m starting to feel like one of those newspaper collumns where people send in their problems and I answer them ahaha
I think it’s called Agony Aunt or something like that
Anyway I digress…
And as I said, this newsletter is yours as much as it is mine.
So here’s some lessons from another one of you that make up this amazing community!
👨🦱 AGE 37 - Salary £52K - Location: Wakefield, UK
What financial advise would you give to a younger version of yourself?
Don’t take that loan out. Don’t repeat your parents mistakes.
What is your biggest financial success and mistake that someone else can learn from?
Success: Saving, anything at all, it adds up
Mistake: The loan I didn’t need (16 years ago) put me in financial difficulty after a break up. You never know what’s going to happen. Rely on you only.
How much of your salary do you save?
15% each month (Plus 15% Pension)
How would you describe the way money makes you feel?
I’m debt free aside from the Mortgage and car. Now I’m earning more than I ever have, I’m comfortable and it’s a really nice warm feeling. I’ve been on a huge financial journey and it’s been so very bad and now it isn’t. I feel proud of my success and take comfort feeling in control of my finances.
What else would you like to share?
Money and finances should be part of our education system. I encourage people to talk about all aspects with their children. We can do better than our parents did.
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My Thoughts
Now I now you didn’t go into too much details but to see that journey of going from financial difficulties to a position where you are in control of your finances is literally the reason I do what I do. Not that I had anything to do with your success, but to think I can help people do what you have done is all I need to know!
A few thing’s I picked up on
Loans and parents: Seeing as your 37 now, you took out that loan when you were just 21 years old. For those of you that think you can be a little bit reckless with your money when you’re young, let this be a lesson that that isn’t the case. Unfortunately most of us learn about money from our parents, regardless of how good they are with it. Please always seek advice from multiple sources, yep not even just from me!
Saving 30% of your salary: That is an incredible amount, but I don’t want you reading this to feel like you are behind if that’s not the amount you are at. Start by growing the habit, then follow it by growing the amount.
Financial journeys: A lot of people reading this are in their 20’s and think they need to have everything sorted RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW. To be financially stable at 37 is already well above average. Take from these answers that you are on a journey, and as long as you are heading in the right direction, you are doing the right thing.
So, who’s next?
I WANT TO TRY SOMETHING A LITTLE DIFFERENT
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How much do you make?
How much do you take home after tax?
How much do you spend on the following categories: (Needs/wants/savings)
How much do you have in all your various saving accounts
How much debt you are in?
Any further breakdown of your spending, for example:
( Rent/bills/Eating out/as many categories as you can)
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